....Once again be very careful who you let close and the intentions of those who show interest to avoid your time, feelings and efforts being wasted on the wrong people/Person. Don’t rush into things with your eyes closed simply because you aren’t patient for the right thing and person.
The big step is getting into a relationship, by now the two people know each other to a certain extent what each other likes and dislikes and have set a firm foundation with God involved to progress further.
More times the expectations people have based on their past experiences of what they expect and don’t expect, can at times also be the detriment to the present relationship. Who you are and how you present yourself is what will attract someone to you along with your looks being a bonus, but most importantly always be sure you are ready rather than be a people pleaser to please the person and fake a relationship, it happens and yes it is wrong.
Relationships should be two people who feel strongly for each other, involve God in it, are honest, trustworthy, reliable, supportive, funny, God fearing and helpful towards each other..
However that is not always enough if there isn’t enough communication between the two, if you expect a relationship to grow and work then communication is key and very important. Or else if something goes wrong, or one of them doesn’t like anything how is it going to be resolved?? Sometimes it can be important to step back from such situations and analyse good ways to try to rectify issues that arise as a team and not as one ignoring the other persons feelings. Give to your partner freely and have them give to you freely to and not this is not just material things it could be more you and them time. ‘You rob individuals of the chance to bless you from their heart when you have unhealthy expectations.’
CONSISTENCY WORKS BOTH WAYS WHEN DEALING WITH MEN AND WOMEN
This will require several conversations, but it’s important to be as real with each other as possible for what you expect and what you can give back, any concerns and lay it all out on the table. An open door of communication in the relationship will build strong bonds and long term happiness.
But on the flip side if you don’t do what is right by your partner, you stand a strong chance of losing them and it is always hard to make amends at times. People become bitter and things tend to get out of hand. So always cherish and appreciate the good person you’re blessed to have in your life because they are rare and not everyone sees the good in them until it is too late.
We are in a generation where sex is soo easy to get, having sex buddies is easier than working on getting to know someone and building a relationship with them. Love is harder to find, because as already mentioned that vicious cycle of so many hurt people with guards up and trust issues to be able to not want to trust but just have fun to try and fill the emptiness they have and cover the pain but doesn’t seem to work. Temporary actions are not worth a life time of pain. Don’t let sin control your actions to the extent were you will miss out on not only the right person but a beautiful thing blessed by God. Shift from a life of darkness to a life of lightness and happiness.
FOR ALL THOSE WHO ARE READING MY BLOG POST I PRAY THAT THEY FIND INNER PEACE AND HAPPINESS TO FLEE FROM SIN AND OVERCOME THE HURT OF THE PAST TO BREAK LOOSE AND NO LONGER HAVE THE PAST DICTATE TO THEM, BUT TO FIGHT IT OFF AND DO THINGS THE RIGHT WAY WITH YOUR GUIDANCE. I BELIEVE EVERYONE CAN FIND HAPPINESS AND A GENUINE PARTNER TO BE WITH WHO WILL ACCEPT THEM FOR THEM, FATHER HELP THEM LIVE A GOOD LIFE FROM NOW AND LET THEM FIND THE ONE FOR THEM AND NOT THE ONE WHO IS TEMPORARY AND WILL LEAD THEM TO SIN..
IN JESUS NAME WE PRAY..