MATTERS OF THE HEART (PART ONE)

Hey Lovelies,

It’s been a while since we uploaded any blog posts, but we are back with more content and pray it will bless you.

Dear Father,

Thank you for the lives of those who are reading this blog I pray that those who read it will bring their hearts to you for you to show them what they need to work on and get healing from. May they walk in humility, love, patience and the compassion you have towards others. May they have peace in all they do and may they not put anyone or anything before you. In your name we pray. Amen

So this was recently on my heart and though to share it with you all, due to some observations made, we hear a lot about women needing healing from childhood traumas/ past hurts, father wounds and mother wounds etc.

Yes though they are real and need healing from, healing is not based on gender, we have to understand that men aren’t exempt and also go through such but for some reason it’s always women spoken of more in terms of healing. Even though stats show men committing suicide and suffering in silence, walking around like they are okay and have it all together, but masking their brokenness in pride and the macho lifestyle.

 

Its sooo important as a man to be secure in yourself, confident and HEALED, you are going to be a husband and father, you’re a leader and so to lead you have to get yourself right first and not hide behind a career or pride. The sad thing is that men are neglected in the area of having trauma and wounds that need healing. Until later in life e.g. in marriage when it all exposes itself and causes a strain on it and their children especially. I always say healing isn’t by gender, man or woman you can receive it.

Yes our parents may not have all had the best upbringing, but then we must learn from it all and grow and walk even closer to God for direction and insight into what we must break and not repeat for future generations. No matter the trials, people’s opinions etc, you are here for a reason and no one has the power to dictate to you what you should do, or who you’ll become in life.

Salvation is personal not a group thing, so don’t miss it because you put others first or didn’t believe you could and so stayed stagnant or allowed your circumstances to define you. You have to get to the level where all that matters is God and not putting what your natural eyes can see first, build thick skin and no matter what giving up shouldn’t be an option.

 

Your CIRCUMSTANCE is not your NAME, your circumstances are what you go through and overcome to bring glory to God. It’s not permanent and the worse thing u can do is call yourself by circumstance. SPEAK THE WORD, SPEAK LIFE, WALK IN THE ASSURANCE GOD WILL NEVER FAIL YOU. So as you hold on, my prayer for you is to rejoice in it and learn as u press on through and be blessed.

THE PROCESS

You have a process to go through, you can’t just 'arrive' how can you learn the value of the thing you want and how to maintain it, if you haven’t been tested or faced trials on the journey to getting it?

How can you get all you want without a process?

God spoke to me recently about the lazy generation may we not be part of that, but rather people who understand and ENDURE. The pain is never wasted.

Can I be transparent? At one point recently I got to a place where I was fed up and knew there was more, but wasn’t attaining it. So I prayed and God asked soo clearly at church recently, what 5 things do I want Him to do for me, that Q was a game changer for me because ever since then, in just a few ways God has been showing up based on my requests.

Please understand that in the process, prayer is so important and it works, and when you feel you can’t go on, THATS WHEN GOD STEPS IN, IN A MIGHTY WAY. At the end of the day it’s not about the material things or the number of people we know or are around. It’s about how well we used our time here on earth and how well we stewarded over what God entrusted us with. So it makes no sense to do the most to please imperfect people or attain things that will lose value.

KNOW GOD

BE YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF

USE YOUR TIME WISELY

TAKE RISKS

God dropped this in my spirit recently and I was floored, "Be careful what you say when in the storm, because it’s what you think, speak and act on that will determine what you attract. Negativity breads no productivity."

In the process the overflow in prayer of what God shares with you and you praying over them, will always speak for you in public. So don’t be ashamed of the process or neglect it due to fear. Walk in it and let God beautify your life through it. That’s why it’s important to be directed by our source and not man, don’t go the wrong way and then blame God. In His presence you can never go wrong.

 

BE BLESSED

WITH LOVE

RENEWING THE FAITH &RESTORING LOVE BACK INTO WOMEN'S LIVES

EMPOWERED UNITED WOMEN MINISTRY

1 YEAR ANNIVERSARY TODAY, SINCE WE HAD OUR FIRST CONFERENCE - SATURDAY 13TH FEBRUARY 2016

A year today the Empowered United Women Ministry had our first conference – Renewing the faith and restoring love back into women’s lives.

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The holy spirit had His way and indeed we had a blessed time in His presence, it was beautiful to see the ladies re-surrender their all to God and be stripped of what was holding them captive. It very easy for us to act as though we have it all together when really our inner man is being starved of prayer and intimacy with God and the word. We need to remember that in our walk it is not just about maintaining our exterior but to look after ourselves internally and whatever we may harbour in our hearts without knowing. May we continue to let God have His way in our lives as we go forward and do not be afraid to be transparent and open with others about what He has delivered you from.

Renewing the faith and restoring love back into women’s lives – This concept was laid as a firm reminder to us all that there is more to us than our weave, makeup, fancy clothes and smiles. Beneath all of this that is shown there are many women who are walking around carrying dead weight, are battered, in pain and uncomfortable in themselves. As sad as it is, it is happening a lot and must not be ignored. To show the seriousness of this, was at an event and at our conference and saw thick heavy dark clouds in the room above the ladies, to signify the pain, struggles, lowness and hardship many face but do not confront all in the hopes of thinking it will go away. But rather it gets worse and eventually you can no longer run from what you never faced in the first place.

It is important for us as, God’s daughters to know our worth, that we are beautiful and the exterior doesn’t define us, we are strong, set apart, special and His Queens. But it is when we walk in fleshly ways that all this seems strange and you count yourself out because of emotions and experiences you have not yet deal with. With all that you go through remember there is a ROOT and you must get to the root of that issue and why you are the way you are and let God in to do a heart surgery and mind renewal.

To avoid you carrying dead weight and unresolved issues. He is your source, He loves you and wants to hear from you don’t shut Him out or blame Him, rather let His words be your words, receive your healing and let Him use you. You have a past yes, but that doesn’t disqualify you, remember as it says in 2Cor 5:17 – ‘Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away, behold THE NEW HAS COME'. Do not count yourself out because of your past when in Christ you are made a new creation and all old habits, mistakes and other things you did are now a thing of the past. Align yourself with how God sees you and let your truth be His.

Thank you to all the ladies who helped in making our first conference a special, memorable one, all those who took part on the day, those who prayed and encouraged us all. And to the ladies who came God richly bless you all. Thank you.

BE THAT WOMAN WHO STEPS OUT AND NO LONGER HIDES BEHIND THIS MASK.

  OUR NEXT CONFERENCE WILL BE –

FEBRURY 2018

MORE INFO WILL BE OUT SOON.

GOD BLESS YOU ALL